I don't think it's necessary that you tell her you've been seeing another T if you don't want to. You could just tell her you're ready to move on, which is true. I think having a closure session can help make the entire course of therapy more satisfying. Good luck.

I think it is puzzling you didn't wake your husband up when someone was trying to break into your house... He is on site, he could help protect and defend the home...