So my mom has undiagnosed and unmedicated mental issues. She likes to play the victim and manipulate people to feeling sorry for her. Here's what's goin on right now:
On Friday my grandmother called me because she can't get into her Facebook account, it keeps telling her that her email address cannot be found, but I can sign ino her account from my computer. She can't from hers. Saturday, she asked my mom to put a message on Facebook for her that her Facebook was hakes and that's why she wasn't responding to any messages. I commented to my mom that her Facebook was not hacked because the password had not been changed (I was still able to sign into it) and no messages had been sent from her account. She went off on me about how I made her look like an idiot on Facebook and now her friends and family can see how stupid she is. umm...what? She also said on facebook that im just like m y father (who she hates) So we haven't spoken since but my daughters birthday party is on Saturday so we have to make up by then.
My grandmother told me that she had complained to her over the phone about me, and she *****ed to my sister about me today, saying that I'm a know it all and I'm disrespectful. All my life I've bitten my tongue and resisted arguing with my mom about various things she says. I don't like arguing. I'd say that's pretty damn respectful. Apparently opening my mouth and saying something against her is disrespectful. I feel like calling her and telling her exactly how I feel, but I know that will probably make things worse. BUT if I keep my mouth shut...it'll just make me even more frustrated for bottling it up inside.
What should I do?!