As far as going to a counsler, I know she would not . She says, I should go to a therapist. We as a family at one time want to a catholic charities together and it was a mess. She wanted me to make a choice and I was always on a fence with her and her father. Today, they talk a lot as if nothing ever happened to me. Her father does stick for me and tells her to let the past go. He abuse me , not her.
Marcia