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Originally Posted by twiks
Well I'm completely screwed then because I'm not charming or engaging at all.
Like I said, my standards aren't very high, but there has to be at least a little physical attraction. But the only women that have any interest in me I'm not at all attracted to. I know that looks aren't everything, and I'm probably coming across as incredibly shallow. But I don't think anyone really wants to be in a relationship with someone they don't find attractive
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No, it is not shallow. It is normal. I was just saying that warmth, charm, personality, etc. are very important and eventually outweigh looks in men, in my opinion.
When my late grandmother met my would be grandfather, now late as well, she thought to herself and said to her girlfriend: "What an ugly guy!"
But then she married him, lived with him until his death for 55 years or so, had two daughters with him, and was happy with him.
She had an attractive face, a statuesque body, and lots of charisma, so she chose him because she eventually came to like him a lot, and not for lack of other alternatives.