I just need to rant for a minute...
I have been married for 2 years, have a history of sexual abuse and absolutely cannot tolerate sex with my husband. I feel like I'm failing him as a wife.
I've tried bringing this up with my T but he didn't have much to say. He just validated my excuse for hating sex.
Every time my husband and I have sex, I just want to cry. I get so overwhelmed and it hurts physically and emotionally. I just can't keep doing this. Any advice??