Excuse me for speaking my mind, but... does your culture require the man to have his cake and eat it too? It makes me cross to read about someone questioning someone else's sexual history to this extent, bemoaning her experience yet here you are, sleeping with the woman when your culture (and yourself) looks down on women like her! It'd double standards and grossly unfair.

Her sexual past has nothing to do with you. It is her business and hers alone and you really should not question her to the point that you argue, and you certainly should not make her feel as though she has to swear on the bible. If you truly liked or loved this woman, you would look past the end of your nose, respect her, be kind to her and just enjoy being together. You shouldn't make her feel bad, especially when you yourself are complicit in the 'crime' of sex before marriage in your culture.


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