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I know I'm not very attractive so obviously I'm never going to be able to date a super model or anything like that.
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Well I'm completely screwed then because I'm not charming or engaging at all.
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Well either way I'm out of luck because I have no looks or charm and I have about as much personality as a rock.
Oh well, I'll just go on being single. Been that way most of my life so what's another 40 or 50 years?
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Well, thanks. But the only luck I have is bad luck so I think I'm just going to stick with being single and give up on even trying to find anyone. Thanks though.
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And being single doesn't encourage me to develop new interests....it encourages me to sit on the couch, watch tv, eat Doritos and get more and more out of shape.
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Haha, no such luck there. I'm broke as hell
I'm a real catch lol
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These are all your posts. Can you see a pattern? I can. You come over as someone who has far too low self-esteem. And that you've decided its easier to give up than work on yourself and there is just a little self-pity here to. That my friend, is a real real shame. Do you really want to go another 40-50 years and then look back with regret that you didn't try? I hope not.
May I suggest going to therapy. Go to confidence workshops. Push yourself out of your comfort zone of being safe and sad and please please take a chance on love and life. We only live once and its a real shame not to give it our best shot.
On a side note, even if you do find a woman of your dreams, its hard to have a loving, successful relationship without actually liking yourself first. And confidence in my book is the most attractive trait anyone can have, far outweighs looks.
Hugs.