There's a lady at work, all she does is complain about her husband and I think I've only ever heard her say one nice thing about him. I think that's terrible to paint the person you are supposed to love and protect into a horrible light to people who don't even know them. Everyone has flaws or things that annoy us. But if all you can do is complain, maybe that old advice "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all" is the better way to go.