Aloha September,

I wish I wasn't so far from you either, and I think what is in order is a good tear jerker to watch. Thank be assertive and stop feeling like you're going to hurt someone else's feeling when you do this! Tell your ex-husband that he's being inconsiderate and down right rude to you as a person.

It has always helped me to pray alot before opening my mouth when there has to be something said that's difficult.
Pls do it for me, yourself, your ex, your kids sake and anyone you love. Leilee