My husband is a kind, caring, extremely funny, intelligent, and hard working man. He deeply loves for and takes care of our toddler son. He works hard and helps me around the house without complaint. He openly communicates with me and earnestly listens to everything I say. Our visions of the future and goals are right in line with one another. He supports me in every way imaginable. However, my dh also has ED. Our marriage and our lives are perfect, except in this one area. He is terribly ashamed and embarrassed of this. Which is why I feel terrible expressing my feelings on the matter. I have an extremely high sex drive, and I feel like an animal in heat sometimes. I am desperate for sex. It is beginning to affect every aspect of my life including my work. We have tried everything, from doctors to therapists to foreplay to toys and anything else that might possibly come up. He has no drive. Sure, he will attempt to pleasure me if I ask him to but it is so mechanical and robotic, like a house chore that needs to be done, that I just can't get into it. I am constantly having sex dreams about random people and I wake up feeling very guilty. I am just so sad at this point and I am beginning to feel trapped. I don't know what to do anymore.