I do not know your personality or the type of person you are. But to me it sounds like you were content with the situation of living with your boyfriend and having the child together. That you did not need the status of marriage stapled to your forehead to be happy. I could be wrong I am just throwing this out there. It is not unheard of for people to have a child together while leading there own and separate lives. It is becoming more socially acceptable nowadays. I would sit down and talk to him and see where he stands if he wants to get married because it was he feels should be done since you have a child together and if he is doing it for the child. It seems you both already have a stable household.

Do either of you go out to dinner with each/parties anything like that?