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Old Mar 27, 2013, 03:24 AM
Anonymous32825
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Originally Posted by Lovebird View Post
I feel a need to point out that to people accustomed to a dysfunctional or abusive relationship, a normal, healthy one seems "boring." In that context, I would say that "boring" is a good thing. My husband knows he's a routine, average, boring old working stiff, he wants to be that, and I wouldn't have him any other way.
I was defining "boring" as people I have seen who are married but lose that important connection with each other...maybe THAT should be called dysfunctional. What you are describing sounds both "comforting" and "comfortable" to me, which sounds lovely.
Thanks for this!
hamster-bamster