Hi Aiuto, does he ever take you out to dinner or on a date? Are you just going to his place and not doing anything else? My question is why do you even want this person in your life? It sounds like the relationship has caused more confusion then anything else. As for if hes going to chase you or not, I doubt it unless he feels like theres somehting it it for him, I say this because of the way he has treated you. He wont even come to your place, and just wants you to come to his place. How disrespectful.