Hi Chef ~ Bless your heart, you've been thru some traumatic years and I'm so very sorry. I'm glad you found us.

I'd like you to go to the Survivors of Abuse forum. The people there will TOTALLY understand what you've been thru and can help you. You will find others who have been thru similar experiences and they can give you advice and support. I'm sure you'll even make some friends.

And please don't judge all people by a few that "freaked out." I would never do that just by seeing your wrists. I don't understand why anyone would do that. I would just assume that they were "battle scars." lol But it certainly wouldn't gross me out or make me freak! That's ridiculous.

Anyway, try the Survivors forum. I know you'll like it there. And I hope we hear more from you. We do care about you. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee