Hi
writing today because I just really caused a rift between myself and my family. They've helped me a lot over the years......they enjoy helping people in general. However, if I go over there....they want to do everything. When they come to my place, they still take over! I realize I'm two steps behind a lot of people and get in circles but I still want to go at my pace.....they helped rearrange furniture for me which was great. But my paper piles!!! I want to do this myself!
Everytime I turned around they were rearranging....and commented on the mess and dust, etc. I got angry and stated that they weren't perfect and I didn't arrange their stuff and that I only wanted help with furniture.......anyhow....they left for home......four days early.....with lots of plans left undone.....very neutral feelings for everyone. I feel overwhelmed emotionally and sad.
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