So today I told T I know their personal info (spouse/children's names, approx ages, where they live, etc). I told T how I found out (reading their dissertation/public records).

I told T near the end of the session because it kind of came up as a result of a dream I had about T. I didn't really want to tell them, but the guilt was really affecting me. I feel better that I told them but now I'm petrified that T is really really angry with me and may drop me as a client. I don't know if i can handle that!!!

I have an appointment to see T in a few days, so that was good, and T said we will pick this up next time, so another good sign. Still, I can't help but think that what I did was so horrible that T is going to be angry and so disappointed with me that they won't want to see me again after that.

I guess I need some reassurance that this isn't the end of the world and we will probably just talk this out and everything will continue moving forward.