You did right by telling. If you can work through this with T, you will have a very solid foundation. Alow T to have whatever emotions T will have. Trust the process. In the end, you will win either way. Worst case is termination... if that happens, it would be better to know now instead of later. But I think your T will know the right way to process through this with you. No doubt many clients do what you did but do not have the courage to tell about it.