sounds like how it was with me and my husband. let me tell ya, he had a TIME trying to get me to trust and relax and finally be okay with a relationship. and we still fuss and fight sometimes. but that's part of it. ALL relationships can get messy at times.

i'd have some cute analogy to go along with it but i don't really give a crap about analogies atm. all i'm saying is, sometimes the mess of being in a relationship with someone, platonic or otherwise, is worth it.

and some aren't. to those of you who read this and are in a relationship where **** just keeps happening........it might not be worth the mess.

but my word means nothing. :P