OK, this isn't about you.

Whomever might be in this situation IS depressed imo. To have their expectations and aspirations dashed so many times that they can no longer afford to hope for anything puts one into the numbing depression.

Being human means we can expect our basic needs to be met, and should want them filled... purpose in life, relationships... etc imo

I don't use the word "wrong" with this idea, as that implies a choice.