I was never the jealous type, and I never even thought that my ex would cheat on me while we were together. He was accused of it while we were together, and I brushed it off because to me, it was ridiculous. I was sure he would never do it. I found out later that he did cheat on me with a girl we know, (and got her pregnant) and then not too long after that also found out he cheated with my best friend. (now ex best friend) I have since found out that he had been cheating on me for the whole year and a half we were together with the girl he got pregnant. Nice huh.
So yea, now I am paranoid when I think of the guy I am seeing talking to other girls, or female friends of his. I don't ever bring it up because I don't want him to think I am crazy and possessive. I don't want to be that way. But I can't help it