when you hear a pastor telling you that you're not worthy, just tune it out. I hate it when he says that. Tell yourself this: Nobody makes me feel inferior without my consent.
christianity is a huge mess, to be honest. I don't want to bash it or anything, but everyone has their own interpretation. Some think this is wrong while others think it's not. i mean, why do you think we have so many christian denominations? Because we all think differently.