Wow, I TOTALLY respect and ADMIRE you for your courage and honesty!!! You've got no idea how you have undoubtedly helped thousands of people on these forums!!!

It took so much courage to put this out there!
And bless your brothers heart too !!! He could have just denied the whole thing, but he willingly and honestly admitted it. You both are wonderful people!
God bless you both! I pray that therapy will heal your brother -- and I see that therapy is doing YOU a world of good! This is a shining example of how therapy DOES work, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart of posting this. We all recommend therapy, but THIS is the ultimate in showing how therapy REALLY works!
God bless and please take care! Big hugs, Lee