hi, and welcome to PC: BPD! lol...

if i were you, i'd consider just going in for therapy regardless of whether they have someone who knows about BPD. counseling will help you learn to cope with the anxiety and stress. if your town has any kind of counseling center, take advantage of it until you can find a therapist who DOES know about BPD. you might even be lucky and find someone who already does.

i hope this helps. i've been in and out of therapy since high school (was able to start while in college and am blessed to finally be able to afford it on my own) but yeah...

good luck!