Cleary...there is a difference between some one who suffers from bipolar, borderline, major depression ocd ETC who cannot always control their thoughts and tend to at times be self destruction THEN those who drink, drug, use sex etc to make up for hurts from the past.
Big,Big Difference!
I don't chose to be self destruction when I get those thoughts and voices...but maybe if I just read your list the voices will stop?