Maybe you are unconsciously using her as a crutch... an excuse...

maybe not. Ppl who are down often bring those around them down. You may be another sensitive person who has to guard yourself from too much exposure of that type of person. Maybe?

I'd go with your T's suggestion. Wow, to have someone give you direct ideas like that is a keeper.... try separating yourself from the friend for a set amount of time... ask your T... and see how much of a difference you feel.

Welcome.

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