quote by sky

"Whomever might be in this situation IS depressed imo. To have their expectations and aspirations dashed so many times that they can no longer afford to hope for anything puts one into the numbing depression"

Sky its not about being depressed its about being realistic and your own self preservation, in my case I got hurt so bad not just in my last relationship but in the ones that preceded my marriage that I said to myself enough is enough, there are only so many times you can pick yourself up, dust yourself down and try again, it has to stop sometime, it is not a hard choice to make, you learn to adapt.