
Mar 28, 2013, 09:32 PM
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Member Since: Aug 2009
Location: CA
Posts: 688
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I had a second session with T#8 on Tuesday, and very shortly into it I realized he wasn't going to work. That there wasn't going to be a connection. I don't have a lot more than that, but let me try. He was at least 10 years younger than me. He had a timer that went off at 45 minutes - a five minute warning of the end of the session. I got there almost 10 minutes late and he had already started the timer, so there were 37 minutes to go. That made me realize that the timer was going to bother me a lot, even though conversely, I liked the idea of taking the last 5 minutes to wrap up and get grounded before leaving. But that can be accomplished without a timer. He repeated things a lot, and I only need to hear a thing twice. He was very empathic, but just seemed too young and inexperienced. He wanted to know more about my depressive symptoms, and he got out a little reference book to read off questions.
So, I'm back to T-shopping again. I guess. I'm jealous of y'all who have T's that you really like.
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