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Old Mar 28, 2013, 09:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Perna View Post
Are you on any meds (not just psychiatric)? It could just be a parasomnia caused by your medicines.
I am not on any medications at this point. I have sleeping pills my regular doctor prescribed, but I don't want to become dependent on anything.

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Originally Posted by hankster View Post
What IS it with your T wanting to be in the room??? Tell him nobody else's t ever said that in the history of the world, and that I think he needs to get therapy for it!! The only room he gets to be in, is the consulting room. it's not like he's the Tooth Fairy.
He says he would like to be in the room because the child deserves to be surrounded by love and compassion and to be heard with understanding and validation. I think he knows where I am well enough to know that I am not capable of offering that right now.

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Originally Posted by tooski View Post
I've experimented a couple of times with going back to my childhood and trying to see what I could remember. I did this on my own, outside of the T room, when I was close to drifting off to sleep. All of a sudden there was just a whirlwind swirling around me, an absolute maelstrom, and I was completely terrified. I didn't see anything, just felt like I was going to be blown off the planet. I realized I would never EVER try to go back alone. If I ever do it again, T is going to be with me. In this scenario I'm just a helpless little kid - I'm not going back as the adult I am now, but a small and helpless child. I want someone big and strong with me to protect me, and he's it.

Perhaps this is what your T is thinking. I don't think it's weird at all. I ain't never going back to the past alone!
I get what you are saying, but I do not want anything remotely paternal from him and this whole idea feels quite paternal. The whirlwind / maelstrom thing is really, very familiar though. Lying in bed after the nightmare, shaking, completely unable to remember anything about the dream, I feel totally overwhelmed and all reason is swept away. There is no lying there, relaxing or accepting, or trying to be "present" in the dream. It's just GONE when I awake and all I'm left with is this feeling of terror.