Trust is very hard and once broken it is very hard to get back. I have to agree with the above message. I hate to say it, because if I was in your boat, I know I would feel the same way. However, if you were on a break did you say that you would not date? Were there rules set up for this break? Just something to think about, I am sure that is not the response that you wanted.
On another note, I have dated my boyfriend for just about 2 years. I often times become jealous when he talks about female co-workers or friends. I wonder who these people are and what they are saying in text messages. There is a part of me that knows he is not cheating on me but my trust in people has been broken by another person which affects our relationship. I have been very honest with my boyfriend and explained the situation. He now understands my reactions to situations and knows that I am trying to work through the problems that I have.
But, if you are not happy you need to think about what will make you happy. Are you happy being with your boyfriend?
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