Hey Trippin,
It sounds like your mom is handling the drama pretty well, yeah!
As for your sweetheart, Jordan, unfortunately (or fortunately most of the time) our children are the ones who can expose our deep love and what that means. You are going to have to toughen up, because I believe this is going to be her "go to" when she gets angry or upset. Yes, we all want the Brady Bunch family, but that is not reality, so just take it when she is upset that she has no dad. (Btw, you are allowed to cry a bit behind closed doors!) How many of us really have the perfect family, anyway? I am guessing very, very few of us here.
Meanwhile, I hope that you and your mom can relieve yourself of this bee..utch soon. Enough is enough, and by the way, you are hanging in there pretty well!
Bluemountains