Did I miss something? He's married. Boom.
Til that changes, he has a wife and children and is not really available.
He has a few technicalities to deal with/ things to do/ before you get in the middle of it.
Chills or no chills. Wouldn't you rather know he's willing to do whatever it takes to be with you for real? Or is it just a quick fix for both of you?
Just saying...