Of course I read well the OP. It is very emotional. All I'm saying is be careful. Take care of you. Emotional decisions/outbursts/expressions, are just that. There is nothing wrong with being cautious in a situation like this.
In my opinion, and it is only that, it is time for her to wait. To see what he does. As a grown up man with grown up problems, will he handle them with grace, class and integrity? Who wouldn't want to see that in a man?
He made promises to someone else that he is now breaking. A very grown up problem indeed. If true love/history/time win out, great. Let him show her. Nothing wrong with that. I wonder what she thinks of this.