I'll have to think about your questions. They are very good. The one where you said your husband could be a model for you struck me. My husband is very self-confident & I get angry that he feels so good about himself while I feel lousy about myself. I often think I would like to say something to "bring him down a peg or two." I know that is an awful way to be about your spouse. It's not his fault that he feels good & I feel like crap. I'm just jealous of his security in himself.--Suzy