Hi Aiuto, in 5 years he will probably be doing the same thing. Just go on with your life and meet someone who has morals and values. Thier are a lot of good men out there. In time you will only feel sorry for him, when you have moved on and improved your relationship with someone else. If you dont move on you will never trust him because you know he has lied. Hes a sad case with risk taking behaviour, which could lead to sexually transmitted deseases. Just tell him youve met someone else and dont want to continue the relationship in anyway. This is a way of saying you cant maniputate me any more. The thing is Aiuto, it is what it is and you cant change it, only it except it and move on. Sometimes it hard to accept, but if you continue it will be the same thing over and over.