We're taking it very slow. We're kissing, but still not making out. I like it this way, but I still don't know when the right time will be to have sex. He is planning on going into the air force, so I am not sure if that will be an option at all. I don't want to have sex and then have him leave for the military because I don't know how we will stay together if he's going to be gone for months at a time.