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Originally Posted by DrSkipper
He is planning on going into the air force, so I am not sure if that will be an option at all. I don't want to have sex and then have him leave for the military because I don't know how we will stay together if he's going to be gone for months at a time.
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My former supervisor, Anna, has gone through this. I think he was in combat, actually, and she did not know whether he was alive or not - something along these lines.
It was a very difficult and stressful experience and after they finally broke up, she decided to stay single for awhile and enjoy weekends with girlfriends in SF just to stay stress-free. No guys for now. She is a very pretty Korean American girl, so it is not that she would not have offers - she is just recovering from a very stressful time.