Emma, thanks for your posting regarding transference. It can be extremely embarrassing to talk about. A few times in the past I have had very intense feelings for my therapist. It took me a long time to talk to her about it. I love my therapist and want to live with her. I've never felt this invested in a relationship - not even with my family. I'm really scared feeling this close to someone. She is compassionate, sincere, honest, fair, dependable and caring. She doesn't judge me or make me feel stupid. She is encouraging and supportive. I HATE WANTING TO LIVE WITH HER AND KNOWING IT CAN NEVER HAPPEN! I talked with her on the phone last night and she reassured me that what I was feeling was okay, but it's not okay with me! I feel like I need to leave therapy so I can get rid of these feelings. I know that's not the right choice, but I don't know how to handle this. Has anyone else ever felt this way?

Kim