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Originally Posted by stopdog
It is unique to the client. It is not unique to the therapist. Clients blur together. No one is all that unique or special for the most part. I am not saying they can't care - I am saying it is not a big deal to therapists and it can be to clients.
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That's how you feel. I know that goes without saying. But my clients were special to me, even if they didn't feel that way; even if i wasn't that special to them. I think there is something unsafe or something for you in feeling special. So maybe feeling special is unique to the person. I also realize feeling special is a fault, a sort of character defect. But once you grow past that aspect of it, finding a person's unique qualities is always interesting and exciting. Unless they're a bad driver and I have to be their passenger.