I think it depends on the T. I know several Ts in real life. One is like how Stopdog describes; one is more how CE describes; and the others are quite in the middle. I'm about to start T school. I'm kinda nervous because I do really care about people a lot! I'm certainly going to have to be careful to guard my heart and set good boundaries when I start my internship. I wonder if Ts tend to be attached to their Cs when they start out being Ts and then get more used to the weird relationship...I'm going to ask my T and others about that...hmmm....