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Originally Posted by content30
I wonder if Ts tend to be attached to their Cs when they start out being Ts and then get more used to the weird relationship...I'm going to ask my T and others about that...hmmm....
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I suspect that it's just the opposite. I think the more inexperienced the T, the firmer the boundaries and more circumscribed the attachment. Becoming more flexible and comfortable with a deeper attachment is a consequence of maturity/security.
This is how it's worked for me as a teacher, and it also fits with my experience with my T. The boundaries can afford to be more permeable, and the attachment experienced more fully because the underlying principles are more firmly established.