Hi Georgie - Life can sure throw some curveballs at us, can't it? Most times it is harder for the caregiver than than the caregivee. What does your therapist say about all this? The stress that you are under must be terrible, but you have to look after yourself. I am sorry that I have no real advice for you. I can tell you that I was resistant to therapy at first, but I am finding that it really does help to clarify the situation. An objective viewpoint does put things into perspective.

Take care of you or you won't be able to take care of others.
- Cam