Hi texascoco.

It good you become a member of PC since still are resources here(PC members included)who can give you feedback on the things you discussed in your post.

Here are some links that are in the PC website and be helpful to you. If you have a question about PC ask the Moderators and Community Liaisons through the PC private messaging.(Uh, you need 5 posts before you can do private messaging or the chat rooms.)

Steps to Better Self-Esteem - Forums at Psych Central
Relationships & Communication - Forums at Psych Central
Sexual and Gender Issues - Forums at Psych Central
Women-Focused Support - Forums at Psych Central
http://psychcentral.com/quizzes/