Hi horsegirl72794.

From your post, it seems like you can navigate around the PC web site pretty good. If you would like to try private messaging after you have done 5 posts, then you should go to your profile page. I see that you are aware of your profile page. That's good click on the quick links icons near the top and click on that quick links menu the private messages icon. It should open up on another web page. On your left is a column, the last icon in that column is "Find Others". That's quick way of finding other PC members who share common interests and can answer questions from the viewpoint of someone who experiences situations similar to you. You could pick a member and private message them if they are willing to help you.