Oh hell is real alright - but I don't see it as a "place" for say, more like a state of being. Basically be your action and disregard of how it effects others, exc. the demonstration has been made that you really do not care to have too much to do with others, and really would much rather be left alone, to do whatever on your own.
Basically by doing all that, and not giving a d*Am about it, and are asking God to leave you alone - so finally he dose, by no long holding back anything, or assisting in any way - you have asked him to go away - so fend for yourself!