Hey man, welcome to this forum. Hope you find some answers here. This is a great spot to open up and even discover things you never knew.

Any ways to your issue. You 22, so sex is not happening for you so much. well knowing what I do about you you are most likely going to struggle a little more then the average person finding the individual. You are quite unique. Don't worry though, I know aspies who are married and have kids. So don't sell your self short.

Sex is highly over rated. It's not that big of a deal or that great of a thing. Who knows you might find a girl who can mold you into what ever she wants. If you have no prior experience then you have no preconceived notions of what to expect really. So that being said you can't screw it up. You can't not like it with nothing to compare it to. A girl just might find it a good thing that you are saving your self for the right woman. That is what you are doing right? I don't think you have anything to worry about. The right person will come along and when they do you will no it. If they don't then you will not know what you are missing. The problems begins once you do have sex and then the sex becomes no more. So keep your head up dude. Read here and see what you can find. There are lots of folks here who are virgins and have lots to share.