I don't have friends either. I'm sure if you "want" friendship people will just perceive you as an attention-seeking loner and ignore you. Maybe you should change your mindset to "it would be better if I had someone I could talk to every day" which is what I'm gonna do too. We need to be confident in social situations and one way to do so is to go out more often. Although to be honest, it's easy for us to avoid going to bars and clubs. So where's a good place to start which doesn't overwhelm? The local shop? But won't we intrude on the shopkeeper's work? Oh look I seem to be rambling on... is that the reason why I don't have friends?