I can get very paranoid very fast on what people say to me.

Best take a few deep breathes and maybe do some reality checking. When people say things to me that get me going I try to think these things:

1) Are they just talking to just to say something, not really thinking about the words they are using.

2) Could they be somewhat knowledgeable of what they were talking about and just making assumptions

3) just using common phrases because they don't know what else to say.

If you can answer yes to any of these, then don't take what was said personally and wait until the next meeting to see if there are any other concerns that come up with this girl.