In-between extreme masculine and girlie-girl: that probably describes most women on Earth. Does not seem in any way specific to you.

In regards to confusing people: the most important part is that you are not confused yourself and are at peace with yourself. How you inform or mis-inform others is next and secondary in the order of things to be considered.

There is also nothing wrong in being extra attractive. If representative of both sexes have commented positively on your attractiveness, it means that you might have a wide menu of choices. There is nothing intrinsically wrong with that. Just make your choices wisely and that is it.