I agree with you in this regard, as well. Sometimes, in the past, I have come across topics and remarks that are quite triggering for me. I have reached out to the mods, and they have totally stepped up to help me identify what I am experiencing may very well be managed with other, more productive tools...which I really appreciate.
It has helped me grow by taking their suggestions. Also having other member feedback has been very helpful.
On a personal note, I, however, am not under any delusion that someone is "out to get me" unless after asking several times to please leave me be, they continue to "show up". It is akin to a fly buzzing around my ear that just wont go away. meh.
"also thought I would say that sometimes what we think is someone out to get us or harass us turns out to be just part of our mental disorders.. thats why when I report a post I feel may be harassing someone or other harm to a member I place in the report whether I would like the moderators opinion on that post. if at all possible the moderators answer me back to let me know whether the post was the way I read it to be or whether I misread it, or read too much into it.. the moderators can be a great help in these kinds of issues."
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