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Old Apr 01, 2013, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted by critterlady View Post
If you don't tell her before you leave, will you worry about it all summer? If that's your tendency (as it is mine), it might be better to have the hard conversation now. Until your transference is resolved, it's likely to recur in the fall, even if it does lessen over the break.
Thanks for your help! I do know that it would happen again in the fall (and I'd probably still think about her a fair amount over the summer). I think I could wait until next year to tell her without worrying too much about it, but I guess I would rather do it this year, while I feel ready and have the motivation. I'm am worried that she thinks I should wait though, because she did say "we don't have to rush it."